Dear Parents, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Caregivers, and Guardians,
Hubbard Squash was written for adopted children, especially those old enough to remember their birth parents or foster parents. Its mission is to help them know they are loved by their adopted family and their birth family. This book was also created to help children recognize that sometimes it is natural to be confused and have questions.
An adopted child may be unable to articulate the questions below, however, many of them are feeling these questions:
- Will this family also be taken away?
- Is it my fault I must move all the time?
- What do I call the people who take care of me?
- What am I supposed to do? How should I act?
- Does anyone love me?
Whatever their reading level is, it is hoped that the adult will read the story out loud to them. This tale may be very close to what they have lived through and the youngster who starts sitting on your lap may squirm, stand up, or even walk a few feet away.
You may be surprised that Hubbard Squash encourages the adopted child to create their own ending. No matter how he/she ends this tale (and they may end it differently each time they hear it), it is correct. However, the youngster should never feel pressured to answer the questions. If they are given plenty of time, but still hesitate, the reader can tell how they would end this story.
Although Hubbard Squash covers a serious topic, it is hoped that the adult and the youngster will have fun with the story. A good example is the reader pretends to sneeze when the Achoo is read in Hubbard's name.
We hope you and your family will enjoy Hubbard Squash, and that this tale will give the adopted child and the rest of the family a deeper understanding of each other.
Feel free to send emails to [email protected]. Your responses, questions, and experiences would be appreciated.
Love to you all,
June Wehmer